
1-ON-1 COACHING FOR DADS OF NEWBORNS
Navigate THE CHAOS
with confidence
Stay steady through the chaos of the first 3-4 months after birth.
Wait a second, I thought I was having a CUTE baby. Why does it feel like a bomb just went off in my life?
At least, that’s what I felt when a newborn entered our family and my life.
My name is Hunter Davis and this is me when I had my first child 10 years ago.
Similar to me, if you recently had a baby, you might be struggling with:
Sleep deprivation. You’re running on fumes and haven’t slept in days
Feeling useless. You are unsure of how to help and don’t know what your partner needs
Overwhelmed by responsibilities. Crushing pressure that feels like it’s all on you as you juggle work and supporting your family
Relationship changes. Like your partner has no time or attention to give you
Sexual frustration. Like the sex life you had before is gone forever
Feeling anger. Which takes you off guard because you generally consider yourself a laid-back guy
Feeling isolated. Like none of your friends understand and you wouldn’t be struggling this much if you were a “real man”
Many new dads report the first 3-4 months of a baby's life are the most intense days of their lives.
There is often a gap between our exceptions and reality as we struggle to bond with the baby and feel connected.
The good news?
If you’re feeling this way, it’s totally normal.
Other dads have gone through this exact same experience.
With this exact same tornado of sensations.
And they have survived.
The honest news?
How you navigate these days matters.
The choices you make and move through these first 3-4 months of your baby's life will have a significant impact on the next months and years of your life.
You’ll notice that I said before that everyone survives the newborn days.
But very few navigate the chaos with inner confidence and a sense of groundedness.
That my brother is far more rare.
This is me after having our second child…
I know this because the first two times I had kids, it didn’t have the support I needed.
I didn’t slow down enough to process my experience or get the perspective I needed from other men. So, instead, I cracked under the pressure.
A few times, I punched walls out of frustration until my knuckles bled. After five years of being free from my unwanted porn use, I relapsed. My work life was affected so much that we eventually went into a financial tailspin that left us unable to pay our bills with less than $100 in our bank account for several weeks.
Like everyone else, I survived the newborn phase.
But without the support I needed, I caused myself and my wife unnecessary pain and scars that would take years to heal.
I definitely didn’t stay anchored through the chaos.
…that is until we had our third baby.
This me with our third child born in 2021.
This time, I took action to make the newborn days the best possible.
This time around, I got the support I needed. I was intentional to pause, process, and get perspective.
And it made all the difference.
Instead of the newborn season being something the broke trust with my partner - it built trust with her.
Instead of the newborn season being something I couldn’t control that caused me anxiety - I used it as an opportunity to learn to live in the present moment.
Instead of my struggle being something I tried to hide, I shared it with others to help me build stronger bonds with them.
I believe no dad should have to journey through the newborn days alone.
That’s why I now offer Newborn Coaching Sessions.
These sessions give dads like you the support they need so you can be your partner’s rock, care for your child better, and generally not totally lose your shit.
If this sounds helpful, then keep reading.
WHy are focused father coaching’s three key ingredients SO powerful for dads of newborns?
#1
PAUSE
The demands of a newborn are constant, which makes it easy to never stop.
Coaching Sessions give you a chance to step away and slow down for one full hour. It’s just like the emergency instructions given on airplanes: put your oxygen mask on first before assisting others.
This one hour will help fuel and charge you up to show up as the best dad and partner you can be for the other 167 hours of the week.
#2
Process
Picture a two-liter of Coke. Now picture shaking it vigorously for 5 minutes.
That’s what having a newborn feels like on the inside for many dads. And like that bottle, if the pressure isn’t intentionally released - it’s easy to explode. Coaching sessions provide dads with a controlled and safe space to process the uncomfortable/new/unspeakable/frustrating/confusing emotions that come with this huge life shift so you’re less likely to explode and more likely to show up as the badass, supportive, and loving partner you are.
#3
PERSPECTIVE
Nearly every person who hikes Mt. Everest this year will do one critical thing - they will hire a guide.
Why? Because accomplishing big things is far easier when you’re doing it with someone who’s walked the path before and knows how to get there.
In our coaching sessions, I give you the perspective, wisdom, and resources of a dad who has done this before so you can win. I will help you strategize and develop practical steps you can take to make these newborn days more peaceful and rewarding.
How Life Gets Better With Newborn Coaching
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Experience Camaraderie
Go from feeling stuck and alone to understood and seen
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Connect Deeper
Grow closer and more connected to your partner and your new little person
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Feel Equipped
Get practical advice and tools to help calm the chaos
Stop drowning. Start Navigating the newborn chaos with confidence.
Single Newborn Coaching Session
$99/session
60-minute session
Recording delivered via email
100% money back guarantee
8-Week Newborn Support Package
$75/week
Eight weekly 60-minute sessions
Recordings delivered via email
A specific action plan at the end of each session
Text/voice message support with Hunter throughout the week
100% money back guarantee
Your first session is ON ME.
See if working with me is a good fit.
100% zero pressure to schedule another session.
Pick a time to schedule your free newborn coaching session below.
Frequently Asked Questions
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When I say that I believe no dad should have to journey through fatherhood alone, I mean it.
For those with a tight budget, I offer a “pay-what-you-can” model so you can get the support and show up to your partner and child as your best self.
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During our initial call, if you’d like to continue the meeting, we can find a time that works for both of our schedules.
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Yes. There is plenty of information on the internet covering the practical advice for helping your baby sleep and things like that.
Focused Father Coaching for dads with newborns is focused on you - your mindset, mental health, along with practical strategies to improve your situation.
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Yes. After the newborn stage comes a whole new set of experiences - luckily with less sleep deprivation.
You can keep working with Hunter to keep strengthening your mental health, improve your relationship, and set and achieve the goals you have.