Hey there, I’m Hunter.

I’M A PERSONAL COACH FOR DADS

When I had my first child 10 years ago, I knew I wanted to be a great dad.

And honestly, a key motivation was that I wanted to be more intentional and present than my own dad was when I was growing up.

But I ran into a big problem.

Being a great dad and husband was harder than I ever imagined.

Like way harder.

From the early stages when we were having the babies to more recent years now parenting grade schoolers, there have been many times when I've felt way in over my head. Balancing work, budgets, marriage, and parenting was overwhelming. And when I tried talking to other dads about the challenges, it seemed like they weren't interested in talking about it.

I felt tired and alone.

Was I the only one struggling to stay the course when life got challenging?

The stress of hearing the mechanic saying the car repair is gonna cost $3,000. The disappointment of our sex life not being what I wanted due to the sheer exhaustion of having young kids. The "I-want-to-pick-you-up-and-shake-you" frustration of a kid that won't obey. The disorientation of having very little time for my hobbies and friends because my time was no longer my own.

I found myself thinking, "Am I the only one dealing with this?"

Now 9 years down the path of being a dad, I know the answer to that question. I wasn't the only dad dealing with this kind of stuff (and spoiler alert... you aren't either).

But I wish I had known this sooner.

No dad should feel like they have to walk the journey of fatherhood alone.

That's why, here at Focused Father Society, I'm sharing what I’ve learned along my journey of fatherhood in hopes that it will be helpful to you yours.

I've been researching and asking questions about fatherhood and masculinity for nearly a decade. What does it take to build a strong family? Raise confident and courageous kids? Sustain a marriage where my wife feels more like my sexy best friend and less like a coworker or roommate? For years now, I’ve been collecting data, looking for trends, and having conversations with other men about this.

What I've learned has been very helpful.

I don't feel alone anymore. I handle the challenges of being a dad much better. I’m winning the battle over porn. I have more fun with my kids. My wife and I are more in love and have better sex today then when we first got married. My life is not perfect, I have down days, but deep down I am proud of the story I'm living.

So if you want to become a better dad and husband, here's your first step.

1. Join the Focused Father Society newsletter.

2. Read the weekly email.

3. Become an even better dad than you already are

The choice is yours.

Do you want to keep hiking up the trail of being a dad in a fog, on your own, and without a map?

Or do you want to journey with a clear vision alongside a group of fellow comrades with a guidebook in your hand?

Focused Father Society is the place for men who want to unite their family as a team, live a love story with their wife, and live a life they’re proud of.

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